The forum is a reflection of real life
if you move to a new school , job or town you will always be the new boy at first
people deal with this in different ways . Some find their way through humour others through charm whiles others seek out the hard case and take them down and gain respect in that way
Anyway i have always found this forum to be a great meeting place of like minded people and if the subject matter diversifies from our common interest VMX then again its just like real life.
Mates i have met through VMX i dont feel thats all we have in common sure you meet through a shared interest but as mates you grow and share and discuss all manner of subjects .
There are subjects on here that i feel are of no interest to me (Carbon tax for example ) so i choose to ignore those subjects and concentrate on the ones that do interest me.
I can understand it can be frustrating for some when a thread goes off topic , but for me that again is a mirror of real life.
What i dont like and cant understand is the stupid and gutless bullying that goes on, like what Firko has experienced. Again real life is full of bullying Wankers who try to make up for their own inadequacies by putting shit on other as they see weaker individuals . Its very easy to be a tough guy on a forum but a bit harder to step up in real life and there has been a bit of that on here over the years .
I think of the forum as a local pub
difference is in the pub if someones giving your mate a hard time we tend to step up and deal with it but on here (with few exeptions ) its easy to look away
As far as it being a boys club bullshit
Im sorry if you dont get a response to a request for a mini bike part or an obscure trail bike part
but be realistic you are in a minority of collectors . It does'nt mean your passion is any less than those with more main stream bikes but should every forum member reply with "sorry no but good luck with that
" . I think you will find that many mainstream parts requested dont get a reply either , it dont mean your an outsider just obviously nobody has anything
Another valid point was a number of people get on here saying how the forum is dying and its all doom and gloom but do sweet FA to add valuable comment or post items of VMX interest.
There is a certain member who every time a thread goes the way he doesn't like is quick to state "dumbgeon here we come "
as if trying to goad Graeme to get rid of it as its not to his personnel taste.
If you are unhappy with the forum why not ask for a subscription refund or just not renew your subscription
OH THATS RIGHT ITS FREE , GRATIAS , FA, NO CHARGE , FREE ENTERTAINMENT
and maybe thats half the problem . Years ago while involved in moden MX we used to have free entry for spectators , we always got a small number of spectators and always a wanker element
One commitee meeting it was suggested we charge admission to club days , within 6 months we were getting big crowds and no wanker element because those who came wanted to be there and more people came because they believed if we were charging it must be good. We were able to pay prize money from the gate takings so encouraged better riders from out of the district so better racing and everyone was happy
Over the years this forum has been a mine of valuable information and we have shared the joy of mates new family additions and the tradegdy of mates lost or maimed . Fundraisers have been held and incredible generosity has been shown
People will come and go its human nature
so don't dwell on whats been and enjoy peoples input while they are here
Above all never forget we are all guest on Graemes forum and it is still the best forum on the net. Others may be currently more patronized but in my experience are moderated by control freaks
Thanks Graeme for the great forum