I grew up. I do NOT attend. I will NOT clap. You will not understand. I don't care.
I can understand that and I can respect that but I think you are focused on the war and the violence. I don't see that. I see a bunch of guys who were prepared to serve their country and were prepared to give up so much for the greater good. They gave up their youth, their health, their comfort, so much more and were prepared to give their life.
I'll be there, not just in the crowd but I'll meet with my Dad's old mates of the 2/4th Field Regt. (I'll be there to carry the banner if they want, but these days that honour normally falls to the grandsons and great grandson/daughters - there are those who still take it as great honour). Back in the '60's the 2/4th use to come down Martin Place 10 abreast and 60 deep, a proud body of friends and mates. This year only 6 will march (they have lost 4 to old age in the last 2 months). Next year it might be none, even the youngest and fittest make heavy weather of the march and the distance.
To me Anzac Day is a National Celebration of Service. I look at each man who marches with respect, humility and thanks.