Geoff, I wouldn't normally make this sort of an offer but in the spirit of maintaining your matrimonial harmony I will loan you, or your missus, my KDX175 to use at Three Bridges. See, problem solved - no jealousy as you will have the same(ish) bikes to ride and I'll hear no more wussy excuses from you.
I can just see the two of you on her special day.....riding bar to bar on matching bikes (well, mines tidier than yours) through the sun dappled glades, chortling while dragging bikes over logs, fixing KDX clutches together, trying to borrow spokes to repair your wheels, sharing sips of water from your camelback.....sharing, thats what its all about. Give her special memories that you will both cherish for years to come!
No need for gushy thankyou's, I'm just feeling good to be giving you lovely and deserving pair a nice day out. SO BE THERE!