I wouldn't wish it on anyone, but I do agree totally with all your other comments asasin.
The strange thing is I think he thought he was being funny & witty.
I've got a close mate going through a tough time right now and he was the last person I would've thought of, he's living away from his wife and 2 kids and I'm glad that I've been able to help him out, he had no idea that I'd struggled with it and there in lay's the biggest problem, we don't talk about it enough.