.... You just have to ask the right person.
And that's the problem right there.
The rules should be in the book, and should be clearly stated.
We can bitch about forum stirrers all we want, but clear rules will blown every single one of them clear out of the water. Fix the rules and ALL OF THESE ISSUES DISAPPEAR.
Instead, we seem to have secret handshakes, confusion, uncertainty, and inconsistency.
And it's not going to go away until we have some leadership from those with the power.