I like this thread as it is such a reality and I am always thinking about my choice of job and ways of changing it . Unlike all that have posted, I am not happy with my choice (and is why i am thinking about it so much). The reality of just getting a 'good job' which included a trade as my father told me in my book are not top of the heap that is for sure. My thought patterns are a fair bit different.
I am self employed and feel it is the best way to go , even though not all forms are the go.
I am a motorcycle mechanic by trade. Dad got me an apprenticeship with the local shop that sponsored me. Thought I was set! Work on cool bikes, road testing the latest roadies and go racing on the weekends. Cool! Reality... under paid ,unappreciated, when something goes wrong you are a shit mechanic, when all is good its expected. After four years you are pretty much earning your life time potential . Okay so you are an exceptional mechanic and can get more. What, $100 a week more? $200?? Motorcycle mechanics wages are crap!
Okay. My take on self employed. As a pool tiler I work a long day most of the time, it is very physical and generally wears you down. I am also out in the elements and have no doubt that the sun is killing me ever so slowly, one day at a time. And because I work outside, even though I am 42 years old, I don't look a day over 55!
So if you are going to do a trade in the building industry, do one that can keep you out of the sun and isn't too physical. I think a sparky is a good one. Also one that you can employ people to do what you do and make you money when you take a week of to go to CD12! When I stop tiling, the money stops coming in!
Successful people are out there. Look at what they do for a living. For me a successful person is one that can have the toys, can also use the money they earn to make more in other venture/s and can take a week or three off without the money stopping. Chances are, that if you work for somebody, you are making them wealthy!
Also, don't just get a job till something else pops up. You will still be there in ten years time if you aren't careful.
Hopefully these aren't ramblings of a man with a sun melted brain!
P.S dont be a pool tiler