I have had the same drama brought a couple of bits from marks swap meet and they didnt have pay pal.
I used western money orders costs $42.00 all you need is there name and town , state,
you do it at the post office after you do the paper work they give you a control number about 10 numbers
you just email these numbers to the seller, then he heads to a western money order outlet with some I.D and shows the control numbers & he gets his money
easy as that.....done it a few times when they havent got pay pal havent been ripped off yet they seem good in the states